Add enabledpatches config option

The server administrator must now specify which patches they want the
server to load (if deviating from the defaults). There are multiple
reasons for this:

* It's useful to be able to pick and choose which patches you want to
boot the server with; without having to move the directories in and out
of the patch directory
* This way, we can have different default patches for different builds
of the game (104 vs 1013)
* ...ergo, it's easier to rapidly switch builds without having to
rearrange your workspace to properly run them
* This also allows us to remove the std::filesystem stuff, which has
spotty compatibility with slightly older (but still current) versions of
the compilers

src/TableData.hpp

@@ -1,6 +1,6 @@
 #pragma once
+
 #include <map>
-#include <filesystem>
 
 #include "NPCManager.hpp"